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INTERNET SAFETY FOR PARENTS & CHILDREN
The following tips for "safe surfing" have been compiled from information available on the web sites listed on the back of this sheet.
Basic Tips:
  1. Choose a genderless screen name.
  2. Do not give out ANY personal information about yourself or others. Membership in special interest newsgroups reveals information about you in and of itself. Be cautious of any additional information that you provide in those arenas.
  3. Do not respond to any messages that are inappropriate, hostile, threatening, or make you uncomfortable. Forward offending messages to your service provider.
  4. Carefully think about any information you may post on a personal web site. Use your e-mail address as a point of contact. Do not post your home address, telephone number, or a photograph of yourself.
  5. Chat rooms may be the most dangerous area of the Internet because you have no idea who is there. Be aware that your chat room "friends" may not be who they seem to be.
  6. Be extremely cautious of meeting online "friends" in person. Remember that anyone can be whoever he or she wants to be on the Internet.
For Parents:
  1. Use the parental controls or filtering software available through commercial Internet providers. Parents should hold the master password to any commercial Internet account. This allows them to set any parental controls and monitor the activity of others on the account.
  2. Consider placing the computer in a public part of the house. Check the screen frequently while children on the Internet, and let them know that you are interested in, and monitoring their online activities.
  3. Be aware of your child's online pals just as you would make an effort to know their friends from school, or any other activity. Make note of, and monitor any correspondence with strangers or people they meet online.
  4. Make sure that children know the "online rules." They should never give out their real name, address or phone number; and they should never agree to meet with someone that they met through the Internet in person. These rules can be posted near the computer.
  5. Educate children that not all people who use the Internet are honest or nice. Some people lie about their real ages or identity, and use the Internet to exploit children.
  6. Monitor online time. Be aware of excessive time on the Internet.
  7. Encourage children to openly discuss this issue and report anything that makes them feel uncomfortable. Make it clear that it is not their fault, and that they will not lose their Internet privileges if someone else contacts them inappropriately.
  8. If you choose to put up a family homepage, consider all of the facts before deciding to put family photographs on the Internet
  9. Always remember that when your kids are on the Internet, they are in a public place and should be monitored accordingly.
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